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One of the greatest attributes someone can acquire is the ability to not give a fuck.
It is so liberating and it allows you to live the life you have always dreamed of.
There is nothing to hold you back and you can always be doing what makes you happy.
We all have our insecurities. None of us are perfect. That is what makes us human.
But we are all unique. We all bring something new to the table.
You have to learn to accept the things you cannot change. Whatever it may be; a certain physical discrepancy, some weird flaw, it doesn’t matter. It is what makes you, you.
When people are unhappy with themselves they will do anything to tear you down. Unhappy people do not like to see other people happy. And sorry to break it to you, there is a lot of unhappy people out there.
People will find anything to try to tear you down. Whether you’re the most beautiful person, super successful, super nice, whatever it is; they will find a way to judge.
“Omg, she’s just way too nice, it is so annoying.”
“Omg it must be nice to have that much money.”
“Must be nice to be that pretty, she doesn’t have to do anything because of her looks.”
No matter how good of a person you are people will find a way to hate you. They will always search for a flaw so they can feel better about themselves.
So the goal is to always just do what makes you happy. There is no point in trying to satisfy the people who will judge you no matter what.
Stop trying to fit in and please others. Focus on yourself. At the end of the day the only one truly there for you is you. Be happy with yourself.
This is a very hard truth to swallow. We are all going to die someday. People will be sad at first because humans seem to only appreciate things once they are gone.
But if you spent your whole life just trying to fit in and doing what everyone else does, then you will be easily forgotten.
Within a couple days or weeks of your death people will return to their normal lives and you will only be a tiny memory.
So whilst you’re alive stop trying so hard to please others. Just focus on your own life. People are selfish and only care about themselves.
Make your life worth living.
They say your life flashes before your eyes before you die; make it worth watching.
If you truly think about it, almost no one is truly happy with their lives.
Not many people can actually spend time alone with themselves and enjoy it.
Most people aren’t fully satisfied with their lives.
So, if someone doesn’t like you, don’t take it personally; they don’t even like themselves.
We were not born to pay bills and die.
When you die you cannot take all of these material things with you. When you are lying on your death bed it won’t matter how many hours you worked. It won’t matter what kind of car or house you own.
What will matter is all of the memories and experiences.
You won’t be thinking about all of the hours you spent working and watching TV.
You will be thinking about all the times you stepped outside of your comfort zone. All the beautiful places you travelled. All the wonderful people you met.
So start making the most out of your life right now.
There will always be opportunities to work and make money. The television will always be there. But you will never get your time back.
Stopped being scared of failing and getting judged. Take the leap. Start living the life you have always wanted to. Stop being scared of being different. Stop thinking about what others will say about you.
Just worry about your own life. Focus on what makes you happy.
~If you had one week to live, would you live differently?~
Life is too short to waste all of your time being comfortable.
Stop caring what others think and live your life to the fullest. You won’t regret it one bit.
I always did what was expected of me. I was suckered in to going to college even though I hate school. Worst of all I was told that I needed to go to school close to home because that is what everyone does.
I was always told how foolish it was to go to college somewhere far away.
I was told that there was absolutely no way I could survive on my own. Everyone told me if I left I would be back within a couple months. No one believed that you can actually go live somewhere else and enjoy life.
Reality check: you can live anywhere and do anything with your life, because it is your life.
There are jobs everywhere, it is not hard to find a decent paying job.
If you are happy and actually enjoy your life you don’t mind working and doing what it takes to stay happy.
I was expected to live in the same exact place for the first 22 years of my life. A place where I wasn’t happy and I felt trapped.
I always wanted to go off on my own and start over. But I was scared because I was always told how dumb and difficult it was.
I was scared to fail and be judged.
But failure is better than being too scared and regretting it and always having that burning question of; “what-if.”
You can get a job anywhere. You can find a place to live anywhere. Stop believing you have to stay where you’re at. Starting over is way easier than it sounds, trust me.
Whatever it is you want to do in your life, do it.
A new job, move somewhere new, go to a new school, whatever. Just do it.
Life is way too short. You should always being doing what makes You happy. This is your life. Stop caring what others think. People will judge you no matter what.