The Best Way To Help Out In Times Like This

“Stop expecting others to change if you are not willing to change yourself and face your own problems.”

If everyone accepted the fact that they are in control of their lives and they are responsible for their happiness we wouldn’t have any problems in society. 

If everyone was happy and content there would be no need to blame others and blame external forces. 

All of this is happening because people are unhappy and they just blame everyone else for their unhappiness. 

Everyone is just pointing fingers. 


Racism happens because people blame other people for the problems we all face. 

But if we all just figured our shit out and worked on ourselves and practiced self love then there would be no more hatred to spread. 

All it takes is for people to just focus on themselves. It truly is that easy but people can’t see it 

Everyone just expects someone else to change the world. Everyone blames everyone else and tells others to change. 

But if we all just changed ourselves the world would change as a result.

How to Change Yourself

Take control of your life. Face all of your problems and conquer them.

You have to wake up and realize you are in control of your life. You are in control of your happiness.

Stop blaming others for your unhappiness. Stop waiting for someone else to change your life for you.

Face your insecurities. Improve yourself. Eat better. Exercise more. Show more gratitude.

Stop focusing on what you don’t have and start appreciating what you do have.

Love yourself. You cannot spread love if you have no love to give.


Come to peace with your problems. Control your thoughts and stop letting them control you. Get over your past and focus on the present moment.

You cannot spread peace if you do not have peace within.

If everyone just stopped pointing fingers and took some time to work on themselves there would be no more hatred to spread.

Everyone must face their own problems and take control of their own life.

To change the world you must change yourself.

You have to be the change you want to see in the world. Be a leader. Stop expecting others to change if you are not willing to change yourself and face your own problems.

Black Lives Matter

I know this is a time to bring attention to black lives and I am all for it.

I will continue sharing and spreading awareness.

Everyone should do the same.

We all need to fight back and make a change.

But at the same time you need to be willing to change yourself as well.

No one is perfect. We all have our problems.

The problem at hand is inequality and injustice.

We need to be fighting for this. But we also need to be changing our views and our mindsets and improving ourselves.

We all need to find peace and love within and stop spreading hatred and blaming others.

Nothing will be fixed until we fix ourselves.

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